Opening Prayer

Lord, still my spirit and focus my attention, I am ready to hear your voice through your Word.

Read 1 SAMUEL 25:23-44

23 When Abigail saw David, she quickly got off her donkey and bowed down before David with her face to the ground. 24 She fell at his feet and said: “Pardon your servant, my lord, and let me speak to you; hear what your servant has to say. 25 Please pay no attention, my lord, to that wicked man Nabal. He is just like his name—his name means Fool, and folly goes with him. And as for me, your servant, I did not see the men my lord sent. 26 And now, my lord, as surely as the Lord your God lives and as you live, since the Lord has kept you from bloodshed and from avenging yourself with your own hands, may your enemies and all who are intent on harming my lord be like Nabal. 27 And let this gift, which your servant has brought to my lord, be given to the men who follow you.

28 “Please forgive your servant’s presumption. The Lord your God will certainly make a lasting dynasty for my lord, because you fight the Lord’s battles, and no wrongdoing will be found in you as long as you live. 29 Even though someone is pursuing you to take your life, the life of my lord will be bound securely in the bundle of the living by the Lord your God, but the lives of your enemies he will hurl away as from the pocket of a sling. 30 When the Lord has fulfilled for my lord every good thing he promised concerning him and has appointed him ruler over Israel, 31 my lord will not have on his conscience the staggering burden of needless bloodshed or of having avenged himself. And when the Lord your God has brought my lord success, remember your servant.”

32 David said to Abigail, “Praise be to the Lord, the God of Israel, who has sent you today to meet me. 33 May you be blessed for your good judgment and for keeping me from bloodshed this day and from avenging myself with my own hands. 34 Otherwise, as surely as the Lord, the God of Israel, lives, who has kept me from harming you, if you had not come quickly to meet me, not one male belonging to Nabal would have been left alive by daybreak.”

35 Then David accepted from her hand what she had brought him and said, “Go home in peace. I have heard your words and granted your request.”

36 When Abigail went to Nabal, he was in the house holding a banquet like that of a king. He was in high spirits and very drunk. So she told him nothing at all until daybreak. 37 Then in the morning, when Nabal was sober, his wife told him all these things, and his heart failed him and he became like a stone. 38 About ten days later, the Lord struck Nabal and he died.

39 When David heard that Nabal was dead, he said, “Praise be to the Lord, who has upheld my cause against Nabal for treating me with contempt. He has kept his servant from doing wrong and has brought Nabal’s wrongdoing down on his own head.”

Then David sent word to Abigail, asking her to become his wife. 40 His servants went to Carmel and said to Abigail, “David has sent us to you to take you to become his wife.”

41 She bowed down with her face to the ground and said, “I am your servant and am ready to serve you and wash the feet of my lord’s servants.” 42 Abigail quickly got on a donkey and, attended by her five female servants, went with David’s messengers and became his wife. 43 David had also married Ahinoam of Jezreel, and they both were his wives. 44 But Saul had given his daughter Michal, David’s wife, to Paltiel[a] son of Laish, who was from Gallim.

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  1. 1 Samuel 25:44 Hebrew Palti, a variant of Paltiel

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‘Like apples of gold in settings of silver is a word spoken in right circumstances. Like … an ornament of fine gold is a wise reprover to a listening ear.’1

Think Further

Some people have a knack of defusing explosive situations with wise advice or a quiet word. Such intervention takes discernment and a level of humility that does not stand on one’s own dignity but puts the interests of others first. Abigail is just such a person: intelligent and willing to rectify Nabal’s mean-spiritedness with provisions (vs 3,14–18). Moreover, she is also prepared to shoulder the blame for her husband’s actions (v 24).

Abigail is also far-sighted and recognizes that David’s integrity as future king is critical (vs 30,31). Her speech affirms to him the truth that God will protect his life and deal with his enemies (v 29). When we lose perspective in our lives, it is important that we help each other as friends and remind one another of God’s point of view, so that we might get back on track and do what is right. It is also essential that we pray for the spiritual protection of Christian leaders in public office (pastors, missionaries, those heading up Christian organizations), whom Satan would especially love to lead into sin, harming God’s work by making them stumbling blocks for others.

Despite his human faults, David’s response demonstrates godliness. First, he recognizes God’s hand in the way he was stopped in his tracks and is grateful both to him and to Abigail who has been the Lord’s instrument (vs 32,33). Second, he acknowledges his own murderous intent, which is critical. It is tempting in those situations to downplay our guilt and save face as if we were on the verge of realizing our wrong anyway. However, David knows better. Admitting sin is the first step to creating a clean heart.


Pray for Christian leaders and ourselves, to be kept from sin. May we be wise friends for each other and, when confronted, be willing to admit our wrong.

Closing prayer

Loving Father, today my thoughts go to peacemakers, who, as Jesus said, are blessed as they do your will. Use them as they seek reconciliation, in large or small situations.

1 Prov 25:11,12, NASB

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